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How it works

Embryo adoption, one gentle step at a time

The basics of how it works, and what we ask of adopting couples — with our team beside you for every step.

You are right — this is a wonderful way to add to your family

You are interested in having a child or children, and this seems like a great way to have a baby. Many couples who seek us out have not been able to have children — and this option is just as available to families with a child or children who would like to have more.

Step one

Apply

(1) Apply online now — at the top where it says "Take the First Step" —OR— (2) Return the forms we send in the mail via email or return envelope.

Step two

Home study

Similar to the standard adoption requirement. Our own social workers can provide this service in any state in the USA.

Step three

Create your family profile

Photo books and a family letter to share with a prospective placing family, so they can come to know you.

Step four

Matching!

Once your match is confirmed, we ship the embryos to your doctor's clinic to be transferred to your womb. We handle all the paperwork and remain the liaison between you and the placing family.

This is just the basics — we would be happy to talk through your questions by phone or email. 1.888.959.7712 · Contact@adoptembryos.org

What's the Timeline?

The timeline can vary but her are some reasonable estimates:

  1. Matching: Can usually be done in 30 days for most couples
  2. Clinic approval of embryos: Can usually be done in 30 days. Embryos must meet FDA guidelines.
  3. Contract signing phase: Can normally be completed in 30 days but it is frequently done in just a couple days.
  4. Shipping arrangements of the embryos: It can take 30 days to work out logistics with clinics. Some embryos will not require shipping so no waiting there.
  5. Preparing for your embryo transfer: You will be able to start your transfer protocol with your clinic after the embryos arrive at your clinic.

If you have done all of your preliminary testing, an embryo transfer can happen within a few weeks.

Program requirements

What we ask of adopting couples

Married three years or longer

We can be flexible on this, but would need to discuss your situation.

A home study or home evaluation

Background checks, financial stability verification, basic counseling on raising adopted children, a home visit, and letters of recommendation from family and friends. Our social workers serve every state, with the closest one sent to you (currently on Zoom).

Classes on raising adopted children

Advised where available; these are generally offered in your local area, and your social worker will help you with this step.

Counselors, whenever you need them

Counselors and social workers are available for you — phone appointments are possible and encouraged to talk through your concerns.

A central decision

What contact would you like with the placing family?

This decision affects the child for the rest of his or her life. It can evolve and change — and frequently does — but it must be agreed upon by both families, and it shapes which families you can be matched with. We can discuss it with you; you do not have to decide now.

Anonymous

No information is exchanged.

No direct contact

Some non-identifying information is exchanged.

Open

Your identities are known to each other; socialize as families as mutually agreed upon.

Our conviction

We believe every embryo is a human life

When thawing and transferring embryos, we ask that no more embryos be transferred than the woman is willing to carry — no more than two at a time, unless they are already frozen in straws of three. Recent findings suggest transferring one embryo can have very similar live-birth rates to transferring more than one; you can discuss this with your fertility doctor. Multiple births are not desirable, due to increased risk to the children and to the mother.

You will receive all the embryos the placing family has, so siblings may have the chance to be born in one household if at all possible — and you are not responsible for any embryos still remaining once your family is complete. We handle all the paperwork and remain the liaison between your families.

Ready when you are

Request the free information packet — mailed priority with the application form, a pre-paid return envelope, and Maria’s book Souls on Ice.

Request your free information packet 1.888.959.7712